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Sexual Addiction: 'It's Not About Sex'

My most recent article in Counseling Today magazine examines how sexual addiction impacts couples and how counseling can help both partners on the path to recovery. I was particularly intrigued by a book one of my sources, Barbara Steffens, co-authored, Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal.  Read more »

WashingtonPost.com's 'On Parenting' Asks About Holiday Stress

This week I was lucky to be quoted in the WashingtonPost.com "On Parenting" blog, written and curated by Janice D'Arcy. We spoke about the challenges new parents face when trying to make thoughtful decisions about long-held family traditions. It was fun to have the chance to really think through the ways that therapy - Imago therapy, in particular - can help conceptualize the unconscious patterns reignited by family events.  Read more »

Relationship Rule to Break: Never argue in front of the kids

Many of us make it to adulthood with the belief that a perfect relationship means zero conflict, and we often funnel this belief into our parenting style.  Read more »

Playgroup as Peer Group

Counseling Today just published an article I wrote about how some therapist moms and dads balance their work with busy home lives. As a part of the DCTherapistMoms group locally, I was expecting to find similar support networks for therapists around the country.  Read more »

In-Laws' Agendas Stress Out Mixed-Faith Couple

In this month's Murphy's Love advice column, the religious agendas of some in-laws-to-be are cramping a mixed-faith couple's wedding style. We also finally answer the question, "Do I need therapy?" 

Read the full article here.

Imago: Oprah's #2 Aha

O Magazine just released a commemorative edition listing her favorite all-time "Aha" momen

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Hollywood's Marriage Fantasies

I read this interesting article today about how Hollywood's preoccupation with reconciliation stories may be impacting kids' expectations about separation/divorce. My favorite line might be this one:

"...Hollywood has always been interested in extreme and unlikely tales. Happy marriages are almost as uncommon in movies as rational divorces."  Read more »

Judging a Friend's Relationship?

In this month's Georgetowner column I address the very human act of judging another person's relationship choices. We all think we know best, but it's a rare event when that kind of verdict is both neutral and welcome. Read the full article here.

Weingarten Talks SPD?

Today's Washington Post Magazine features a column by Gene Weingarten that - despite not actually naming it - addresses Sensory Processing Disorder, a topic I wrote about for Counseling Today in March.  Read more »

Parents Bemoan Lack of Time, Space to Vent Frustrations

Right now I'm on deadline for a Counseling Today article about therapist moms and dads - how they balance work and family, and still find time for continuing education, supervision, and - gasp - the relationships that made them parents in the first place.  Read more »