Affairs: Infidelity and Betrayal Trauma in Couples Therapy—Live

Price range: $25.00 through $105.00

Places
DATE

Monday, December 7, 2026

TIME

9am to 11am Pacific Time / 12pm to 2pm Eastern Time / 6pm to 8pm Central European Time

LOCATIONZoom

Affairs: Infidelity and Betrayal Trauma in Couples Therapy—Live
Clinical Treatment for Recovery, Repair, and Sustainable Relationship Agreements Presented by Tammy Nelson, PhD

This live online post-licensure training for mental health professionals takes place on December 7, 2026.

Infidelity can profoundly affect trust, safety, intimacy, sexuality, identity, and each partner’s understanding of the relationship itself.

Drawing on clinical research and theory related to infidelity, betrayal trauma, couple recovery, therapist countertransference, and relationship agreements, Tammy Nelson, PhD, will present a three-phase treatment framework addressing crisis and stabilization, insight and reevaluation, and vision and renegotiation.

Participants will examine varied forms of affairs and explore how therapist bias, countertransference, triangulation, collusion, and unintentional shaming can interfere with recovery or contribute to retraumatization. Moving beyond a victim-perpetrator-rescuer framework, the training supports a more clinically balanced understanding of both partners and the relationship system.

Through clinical discussion, case material, and practical interventions, participants will learn strategies to help couples repair relational injuries, increase transparency, address implicit and explicit expectations about monogamy, and create sustainable relationship agreements for the future.

Teachings are appropriate for healthcare professionals as well as the general public. Healthcare professionals will be able to incorporate the tools and practices offered in this program in ways beneficial to clients or patients.

Participants will gain

  • A three-phase clinical framework for working with couples following infidelity
  • Strategies for reducing shame, bias, collusion, and retraumatization in treatment
  • Interventions for rebuilding trust, intimacy, transparency, and relational safety
  • Tools for helping partners create explicit and sustainable relationship agreements

Learning Objectives

By the end of the program, participants will be able to:

  1. Define infidelity using a three-part framework and describe its impact on partners in a marriage or committed relationship.
  2. Identify manifestations of betrayal trauma and explain how therapist bias, countertransference, and collusion can affect treatment.
  3. Apply the crisis, insight, and vision phases of affair recovery to clinical case conceptualization and treatment planning.
  4. Distinguish between implicit and explicit monogamy and facilitate conversations about relationship expectations and agreements.
  5. Select interventions that support accountability, trust, erotic recovery, and long-term relational repair following infidelity.

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