Healing after Infidelity: Betrayal Trauma in Couples Therapy—Live Presented by Tammy Nelson, PhD
This live, two-hour online training explores clinical approaches to infidelity recovery and the treatment of betrayal trauma in couples therapy.
Infidelity can profoundly affect trust, safety, intimacy, sexuality, identity, and each partner’s understanding of the relationship itself.
Drawing on clinical research and theory related to infidelity, betrayal trauma, couple recovery, therapist countertransference, and relationship agreements, Tammy Nelson, PhD, will introduce her three-phase clinical framework addressing crisis and stabilization, insight and reevaluation, and vision and renegotiation.
Participants will examine varied forms of affairs and explore how therapist bias, countertransference, triangulation, collusion, and unintentional shaming can interfere with recovery or contribute to retraumatization. Moving beyond a victim-perpetrator-rescuer framework, the training supports a more clinically balanced understanding of both partners and the relationship system.
Through clinical discussion, case material, and practical interventions, participants will learn strategies to help couples repair relational injuries, increase transparency, address implicit and explicit expectations about monogamy, and create sustainable relationship agreements for the future.
Target Audience and Course Level
This intermediate-level training is designed for licensed psychologists and other mental health professionals with graduate-level clinical training. For psychologists seeking APA continuing education credit, the content builds upon doctoral-level education in psychology.Topics covered
- A three-phase clinical framework for working with couples following infidelity
- Strategies for reducing shame, bias, collusion, and retraumatization in treatment
- Interventions for rebuilding trust, intimacy, transparency, and relational safety
- Tools for helping partners create explicit and sustainable relationship agreements
Learning Objectives
By the end of the program, participants will be able to:
- Differentiate the crisis, insight, and vision phases of Dr. Nelson’s clinical framework for treating infidelity according to the primary clinical focus of each phase.
- Apply two interventions—trauma-informed stabilization and explicit relationship-agreement development—to a clinical case involving infidelity.
