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I speak three languages — French, English, and Spanish — and I can tell you from experience: understanding the words doesn’t mean you fully understand the culture.You can know…
Category: Imago, Couples, Marriage, Relationship, Communication
May 8, 2025
Imago Therapy is Not Just for Couples“Mom, are you being nice or are you being mean? I’m trying to be nice, so you need to try too.” — A…
The Transformative Power of Imago TherapyIt’s Not About the ToothpasteIn relationships, it’s rarely about the toothpaste.It’s about what the toothpaste represents—what lives beneath the surface of our irritation, what…
You may have read headlines about how loneliness is a health threat. Or you’ve heard how cultivating community is the thing that helps individuals stay strong against oppression and…
My ImagoStarting from early childhood, each of us is watching the world around us. Children are always watching, picking up images that will stay with them for the rest…
Love is a beautiful journey, but for many BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color) couples, relationships exist within a unique landscape—one shaped by cultural expectations, generational trauma, systemic…
Joshua sat on the park bench, watching the golden leaves drift to the ground. Beside him, Brianna gazed at the quiet lake, her fingers entwined with his. It was…
And What Does That Say About You?Think about it for a moment, and let yourself really answer the question: am I a half-full or half-empty kind of a person?…
What Do I Do Next?Political transitions can be emotionally challenging. It is a time when many things change, and this year more than ever before, people have been expecting…
The Imago Dance: Understanding Relationship DynamicsImago Theory, developed by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, provides a relational framework that examines how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. At the heart…
Grief Seen Through the Imago LensThe loss of a spouse is a profound journey that touches the deepest parts of our being. Through the lens of Imago therapy, we…
Category: Relationship, Marriage, Therapy, Family, Anxiety, Depression, Grief
January 31, 2025
As I settled into my office chair after an enlightening professional course on ambivalence in relationships, I found myself reflecting on the myriad of couples and individuals I’ve counseled…