Becoming an Agent of Safety in Couples Therapy—Live
The Transformative Power of the Therapist’s Presence
Presented by Maya Kollman, PhD
What does it mean to create safety in couples therapy, and how can the therapist become an agent of growth?
This live online post-licensure training for mental health professionals takes place September 14, 2026, from 9–11 a.m. Eastern Time and offers 2 hours of continuing education credit.
Drawing on research related to therapist effects, therapeutic alliance, empathy, self-regulation, and client feedback, Maya Kollman explores how the therapist’s presence influences relational safety and the therapeutic process. Through our expectations, attention, language, nonverbal communication, emotional regulation, and clinical choices, therapists help shape what is noticed, invited, reinforced, or overlooked.
Participants will examine the therapist’s influence—and its limits—including how to remain regulated during emotionally charged interactions, balance empathy with appropriate boundaries, and distinguish relational safety from comfort, conflict avoidance, or therapist control.
Through reflection, discussion, clinical examples, and video, participants will explore ways to invite client feedback, strengthen self-observation, support the therapeutic alliance, and encourage couples to take greater ownership of their relational growth.
Teachings are appropriate for healthcare professionals as well as the general public. Healthcare professionals will be able to incorporate the tools and practices offered in this program in ways beneficial to clients or patients.
Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this presentation, participants will be able to:
- Identify at least three ways the therapist’s expectations, self-regulation, verbal communication, and nonverbal presence may influence relational safety and the therapeutic process.
- Differentiate relational safety from comfort, conflict avoidance, therapist control, or the absence of emotional intensity.
- Apply a structured process of self-observation, client feedback, or session review to identify therapist strengths, assumptions, reactivity, and opportunities for growth.
- Demonstrate at least two ways to invite couples into a collaborative, co-created therapeutic process that encourages ownership, draws upon their relational wisdom, and respects their autonomy.
What We’ll Explore
- What relational safety means in couples therapy
- Therapist influence—and the limits of that influence
- How expectations, language, and nonverbal communication shape the therapeutic process
- Therapist self-regulation during emotionally charged interactions
- Balancing empathy, appropriate boundaries, and clinical leadership
- Inviting client feedback and supporting couples’ autonomy and ownership
- Using self-observation and recorded sessions to strengthen clinical practice
Who Should Attend
This presentation is designed for psychotherapists, counselors, social workers, marriage and family therapists, psychologists, interns, and other helping professionals who work with couples or relational dynamics.
Clinicians from all theoretical orientations and levels of experience are welcome.
