Empathy: Where the Connection Deepens

You’ve mirrored. You’ve validated. Now what? In the Imago Dialogue, there’s one more step that makes all the difference: empathy. Empathy is where understanding becomes connection. It’s the moment you stop standing beside your partner’s story and actually step inside it, even just for a moment, to feel what it’s like to be them. That […]

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Expressing empathy feels particularly hard right now!

“In order to empathize with your experience, I must be willing to believe you as you see your experience and not how I imagine your experience to be.” Brené Brown All my survival instincts are on high alert and every possible transgression, thoughtless action or selfish choice kicks me into a level of outrage that […]

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Growing Empathy for Men in Group Therapy

In an earlier article “Why Group Therapy for Men: 5 Benefits,” I wrote about how working with other men in a group context can be beneficial. The article raised some questions from readers: one reader said: “Ok, I’m interested but what are the mechanics of this?  How does that actually happen? Another asked “what is […]

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Getting the Love You Want™

Live Virtual Getting the Love You Want™ Workshop

This engaging and experiential 6-week virtual workshop is designed to help couples transform conflict into opportunities for healing, growth, and deeper connection. Together, you and your partner will explore how emotional experiences and relationship patterns shape daily interactions while learning practical tools to communicate with greater empathy, understanding, and compassion.

Throughout the workshop, couples will participate in guided exercises, meaningful dialogue, demonstrations, and relationship practices that support emotional safety, intentional connection, and renewed intimacy. The virtual format allows couples to immediately apply what they are learning in real time between sessions, creating meaningful and lasting change within the relationship.

By the end of the workshop, couples will leave with fresh insights, practical communication skills, renewed energy, and restored hope to strengthen commitment, connection, and romance in their relationship.

Whether you are just beginning your journey together, feeling disconnected in routine, or navigating a difficult season in your relationship…

THIS WORKSHOP CAN TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER

Please select one registration per couple.

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Uncoupling with Intention: How to End a Relationship With Respect, Clarity, and Care

What Is Intentional Uncoupling? Not all relationships are meant to endure a lifetime, yet every relationship—regardless of its length—carries significance worthy of reverence. When couples engage in deep relational work, many eventually arrive at a quiet crossroads: they realize that, although love was once abundant, their paths of growth are now moving in different directions. […]

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Blending Roots, Building Love: Multicultural Counseling

Love Begins at the Kitchen Table Culture is a set of customs, rituals, traditions, languages, values, and beliefs within a community that are shared from generation to generation. When I think about love across cultures, I don’t begin with textbooks or theories. I start at my own kitchen table. As an African American woman married […]

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The Quiet Weight of Mother’s Guilt

The burdens and blessings of motherhood dance in delicate tandem—a symphony of devotion, introspection, and unconditional love, each note colored by compassion and longing. The quiet weight of maternal guilt, though gentle, is profoundly persistent. It is accompanied by the silent chorus of self-reflection: the late-night unraveling of memories, the wonderings if the paths chosen, […]

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Grace After Goodbye: Raising Amazing Children Beyond Divorce

After divorce, the journey of motherhood unfurls in unexpected patterns—each cord intertwined with tenderness and complexity. The quiet weight of guilt becomes all the more intricate, imbued with new shades of longing, regret, and fierce love. Traversing this landscape, mothers are called to a profound form of grace—one that acknowledges their humanity while celebrating their […]

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Why Don’t You Just Get It?

Feeling heard and understood when we communicate can be tough. You think you said something clearly, then the response you get does not make sense. Or you think you’re responding to what someone just said, and suddenly they sigh—or worse, mutter, “Were you even listening?” Even in close, caring relationships, misunderstandings happen all the time. […]

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Two Homes, One Heart: A Reflection on Shared Spaces and Childhood Custody

By Dr. Latasha D. McFarland (Harrison) A New Season, Liminal and Unsettled As adulthood unfurls in unexpected directions, I find myself living an experience I could not have anticipated—one which has quietly stirred the deep waters of empathy within me and unearthed a gentle grief I had assumed was long at rest. Recently, I entered […]

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