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Keep Calm and Merry On!

Using mindfulness to embrace a new year.As we near the turn of yet another year of turbulence and uncertainty, it’s only fair to honor the long way we have…

Talking Values with Teens

Do you live in your values?What do you value? How do your values impact how you live your life? How does it feel when you are living within your…

Reclaim Your Lost Parts, You are Worth It

Brilliant AdaptationsAs adults, other people’s character traits trigger us in intimate relationships Take a closer look at the characteristics that precipitate our mean-spirited response with those closest to us. …
chronic pain

Grief is a Journey of Self Discovery

Getting help with grief never occurred to meMy father died by accidental drowning six months before my wedding. The idea of seeking counseling or attending a grief group was…

5 Lessons from a Recovering People Pleaser

Mind Your Party MannersI grew up hearing the reminder to remember my “party manners” every time I left the house, even when I joined the soccer practice carpool. My…

What to Expect in a Break Up

Life HappensThis time of the year can be incredibly challenging if you are in the storm of a breakup.  Over twenty years ago I sat in that seat. I…

Do you want to change your relationship? Change your Lens!

Change your lens, change your relationship!First of all, how would your relationship be different if you approached your partner reflecting on two questions:What can I celebrate in my partner?and…

Group Therapy or Counseling is Helpful During a Breakup

Navigating a Breakup During the Holiday SeasonSome people will not be seated at the table for the holidays. Life circumstances are causing spikes in couples deciding to terminate relationships….
Reality Relationship shows

How to Be a Vulnerable Partner and Share Intimate Connection

Reality shows and RelationshipsI love watching reality dating shows.  Especially the more immersive, experiential ones (nod to OWN’s Ready to Love and Put a Ring on It, Lifetime’s Married at First…

There is No Place Like Home

A Love Letter to the Expat in MeMy childhood as an expat in high-risk countries has greatly shaped who I am today. As a child I lived in four…

A New Cohort of Chronic Illness Support Group is Forming Now

First Cohort of Chronic Illness Support GroupThe first cohort of our Chronic Illness Support Group started last month and is a joy to build our little community! Each week…

Living in the Space Between

Smile?Recently, my rabbit hole adventures led me to a guided meditation with Kristen Neff on warmth. One of the prompts Kristen used was to “allow yourself to notice the…